Dear Bro. Fuston
I am 19 years, there is this guy that has been professing love to me.
We have known each other for some weeks and he told me that he has a girlfriend, but wouldn’t want to lose me. I love him, but my confusion is, if he really loves me like he claims.
Please, reply through my SMS, thanks.
Joy.
Dear Joy,
Thank you for sharing your confusion with us, we must state again that any mail sent to us automatically becomes our property, and it is in our discretion either to publish it or not.
Your mail can help to enlighten others who are facing the same problem like you. In the first place, what kind of relationship is this guy seeking from you? If it is a sexual relationship, I will advise that you stay away from him, such affairs lead to dangers and regret that one may eternally live with.
At 19, you should be in school and is expected to be busy with activities relating to your studies. Unhealthy relationship poses great distraction to education and threat to good health.
It is early for you to begin talking about love. Can you handle the emotional attachments?
I will suggest that you engage yourself in such things that can make your mind function optimally, such things that can make you great and not things that have the capacity to derail or deny you your future.
Be wary of that guy who jumps from one girlfriend to another, he may not be the right person for you, he can also dump you for another girl, so, watch it.
Happy happy New Year.
