Grammy-winning Nigerian singer Temilade Openiyi, popularly known as Tems, has expressed her views on the motivations of many men in relationships. In a teaser for the upcoming episode of “Flow with Korty,” Tems shared that she believes a lot of men approach relationships with no other agenda than sex.
When asked by host Korty EO if she had ever been in love, Tems responded, “A lot of guys are very obvious… There is no agenda but to penetrate.”
The Oscar-nominated artist also discussed her experiences of being misunderstood and bullied due to her reserved nature. She revealed how these challenges affected her, stating, “Everything I did seemed to annoy everybody. They would say, ‘Why are you so slow? Why are you talking so slow? Talk like you are alive.’ And I would say, ‘You are very stupid. Are you crazy?’ I was upset all the time.”
Tems added that she found comfort and solace in her musical talent, which helped her cope with the misunderstandings and bullying she faced.
