By BIODUN BUSARI
In a heartfelt conversation, Nigerian woman Yetti Tabai shares her journey of perseverance and determination as she navigated the challenges of studying in the United Kingdom. Leaving Nigeria at the tender age of 15, Yetti’s story is a testament to the strength and resilience required to succeed in a foreign land.
A Journey of Determination
Yetti’s journey began with high hopes and dreams of pursuing higher education in the UK. After graduating from secondary school in Nigeria at just 14, she relocated to the UK only to face an unexpected hurdle: at 15, she was too young to enter university. Forced to redo secondary school and pass her A Levels, Yetti faced initial frustration as she watched her peers advance while she remained behind.
A Struggle for Survival
The real test came when Yetti finally gained admission to London Metropolitan University to study Law and International Relations. Her dream, however, came with a heavy price. Denied a student loan despite being a British citizen, she was left with no choice but to work two jobs to afford her tuition. Balancing shifts at McDonald’s and Nando’s with her studies, Yetti missed countless lectures, relying heavily on online materials to keep up.
Her struggles didn’t end there. With money tight, Yetti saved for months to buy a £70 bicycle, her only means of commuting to university. Despite the hardships, she persevered, driven by the belief that failure was not an option.
Emerging Victorious
Through sheer grit and hard work, Yetti not only completed her degree but also carved out a successful career in IT, a field that provided more financial stability than law. Her determination and resilience also led her to open two successful food businesses, one in Manchester and another in Milton Keynes, turning her dreams into reality.
A New Life, A New Perspective
Reflecting on her experiences, Yetti contrasts life in the UK with Nigeria, highlighting the isolation and lack of communal support in the UK. Despite these challenges, she appreciates the opportunities and resources available, urging the Nigerian government to adopt similar support systems to help its citizens.
Impact of the ‘Japa’ Syndrome
Yetti also touched on the phenomenon of the ‘Japa’ syndrome, where Nigerians seek better opportunities abroad. While acknowledging its benefits, she emphasized the financial and emotional toll it takes, with ever-changing policies and increasing costs disrupting the dreams of many.
A Message of Hope and Resilience
Yetti’s story is a powerful reminder that with hard work, patience, and resilience, one can overcome even the most daunting obstacles. Her journey serves as an inspiration to many, proving that despite the hardships, success is achievable with unwavering determination.
Yetti’s journey from a frustrated teenager to a successful entrepreneur and IT professional is a testament to the power of perseverance and resilience. Her story serves as an inspiration to many who face similar struggles, proving that with determination and hard work, anything is possible.
