Veteran Nollywood actor Kanayo O. Kanayo stirred a heated discussion after making a bold statement on October 13, 2024, regarding the role of men in relationships. In a video posted to his Instagram account, the actor voiced his concerns about men who rely on women for financial support, calling the trend “useless and dangerous.”
Kanayo stressed that it is a man’s duty to provide for his family, emphasizing that when a man fails to meet these responsibilities, it impacts his progress and character. “When a man depends on a woman to feed him, it’s detrimental to his growth,” he said. He went further, stating, “A man who cannot take care of his family has no need to use his private parts on a woman.”
The actor’s comments sparked reactions from across social media, with many agreeing that men should bear financial responsibility. However, Kanayo also offered advice to women, cautioning them to carefully consider their choice of partner. He explained that defending a man’s lack of ambition can encourage irresponsibility, urging women to prioritize provision over love alone in their relationships.
The actor’s statements have reignited conversations about gender roles and the pressures of financial expectations in marriage, particularly in African culture. His words have resonated with many, but they also sparked debate about societal expectations on men and how modern relationships should balance support between partners.
